The journey to success is not a smooth one, there are series of challenges always ready to shake you and make you go back. Your conviction that you deserve to be great must be known.
People don't become great by magic, there are lots of people on the quest for a seat at the top and if you are not confident enough, they will intimidate you, plant fear in you, make you go down and use you as a stepping stone.
So many people die inside at the sight of a problem, they don't even want to know the magnitude of the problem, either big or small. There is always an inner weakness and conviction that they can not overcome.
Building once confident is very important, it helps you to be physically and emotionally strong. Most battles of life are not always physical but of the mind. When you are able to build your confident, no matter the level of challenges that comes your way, something inside you will keep telling you that you will overcome
Below I will be listing 5 good reasons why you need to build you confidence.
1. To Overcome Fear :
Until a man is able to subdue fear and put it under his control, he will always be scared of making exploit.
The major reason why most people settle for less anywhere they find themself is because they have not been able to build their confidence,
You must be strong, strong for yourself, strong for the world whom you are an asset to and strong for God whom you are to serve.
What doesn't kill you will make you stronger. You are the architect of your life. You have drawn a good plan, don't be scared of building.
2. Inferiority Complex :
Looking down on oneself is one evident feature of lack of self confident. When you are not confident in yourself, you will see others as better than you.
Inferiority complex has been the reason why so many talent are being buried till tomorrow. You must refuse to be oppressed. You are equal with every humanbeing, know one is better than you are.
You can sing doesn't mean you can't dance,
You can't drum doesn't mean that you can't speak
You can't draw doesn't mean you can't advise.
If there is anything anyone is good at that you are not that wants to make you feel inferior, know today that there is something you are good at that he/she isn't.
3. Shyness :
Tell me Why shall you shy, are you not a children? Lol, old right? Whatever.
If you are reading this and you know that you are always shy, you need to build your boldness and confidence.
Shyness can be very dangerous as it can male one loose opportunities. There people who has lost chances because of shyness.
You were asked to take a speech and because you are shy you gave it to another person whereas you know what to say. I pray you don't sell out your one and only chance.
You have no reason to be shy, you are not wrong neither are you weird, you are like just everybody.
4. To Move Higher :
Moving higher is not always an easy task because there is rarely a promotion without a test and for you to pass any test, you must be confident enough to carry what it brings.
Building your confident is very important for you to move you. The higher you go in life, the advance things become and so your level of confident must continue to increase.
5. To Gain Relevance :
If you must gain relevance among your friends, you must be able to build your confident.
People no longer want to move with cowards, everybody want to be associated with a go getter, an ever active person.
Gaining respect and relevance from your peers requires you to build your confidence.
Note This Today ;
Confident people are go getters,
Confident people are risk takers
Confident people are future leaders
Confident people are success addicts
Confident people are threats to failure.
Why don't you build your confidence Today.
How To Build Your Self Confidence
1. Say no to discouragement
2. Give yourself the hope you need
3. Hook you with optimistic friends
4. Dare your fears
5. Take and stand by your decision
6. Be sure nothing can kill you except God
7. Keep your determination.
The hen is not as big as the vulture but it tries its best to chase it and prevent it from carrying its babies.
Self confidence is crucial, your small body is not a reason for you to give in to fear and failure. Fight for what you deserve and want, do your best and attempt the rest and God will crown your effort.
About author
Kayode Oluwatobiloba Emmanuel
He is a Blogger, a Freelancer, a Business Psychologist and a Motivator.
He owns www.dailyguide.com.ng where he shares tips and secrets on business success and motivates youths for financial buoyancy.
